Some Friends…

A relationship is something that a person doesn’t choose to have or have not. Like a relationship with relatives, with family members is something that one can’t change. The same is the case in relationships with neighbors. One can not fully decide his or her neighbors. One can not decide his boss, one cannot decide his Manager, one cannot decide his colleagues.

The only relationship one can independently decide is his friend. This is why sometimes people are connected more with their friends, than their father or mother, or brother or sister. But let me tell you that even this is the very ideal case. If you are reading this let me tell you that we are not always independent in choosing our friends circle. Sometimes the times the situation of friendship is even more complex. At times friendship is merely abounding, just give and take, no more no less. At times you want to get rid of this bond you want to be just alone because it's better for you but you just can't. This feeling eats you from inside you cant deal with it, you just can't. That is the time you start planning that how to get rid of this in some longer time period. Your plan is ready. But things keep on repeating themselves. Like it's a cycle that keeps coming back to you.

Here I want to tell everyone and myself as well, if you find something like this around you just don't continue this relationship, or at least consider the one as your colleague, not your friend. No matter what it costs. In the longer term, it will be beneficial for you to not be with such people.